Author: Tara May

Pure Grit: Testing the Upper Limits of Human Accomplishment

What is 200 miles? Well, depending on whom you ask, you might get a different answer. 200 miles is roughly the distance between San Francisco, CA and Reno, NV. It’s 3-4 hours by car and less than an hour by plane. It’s just shy of the total number of miles you’d cover if you were to hike from Yosemite Valley to Mount Whitney along the John Muir Trail. It’s also the distance that 11 people decided to run last weekend at the Born to Run Ultra Marathon in Los Olivos, CA. For what reason they ran, I’m not entirely...

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LOL: The Social Ramifications of a Good Laugh

Have you ever heard a baby laugh? What about adults? Of course you have; there are entire YouTube channels and websites dedicated to just that—people laughing. We love it. The sound of another person laughing immediately triggers a smile in the listener and a feeling of warmth. It's a universal feeling, and an important aspect of human communication that we all share. I know, some of you are shaking your heads, saying to yourselves, "I don't laugh." But you're not fooling me. Even if you are slow to laughter, you can't say that you've NEVER laughed. We all know the...

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Anything but Dull: When Nightmares Become Real

Something can be your worst nightmare—the scariest thing you can ever imagine—until you’re actually going through it, and then something else has to take its place. For the past several months, my husband and I have been dealing with the possibility of our worst nightmare. Up until last week, that’s all it was; a possibility. Then, last Friday, it became a reality. We suddenly found ourselves having to reevaluate. I didn’t take it so well myself. I usually pride myself on having a tough exterior, backed up by a fairly sturdy interior. I can usually remain calm in tough...

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Gretchen’s Legacy: A Reminder From An Old Friend

We're all afraid of death. But is it enough to teach us to live? I found out that a girl I once knew passed away last week. Gretchen and I went to high school together, and even though we hadn’t kept in touch and I hadn’t talked to her in years, I remembered the smiling face looking back at me from the Facebook photos. Gretchen was a runner, like me, and we both ran for the school cross-country and track teams. I remember her impossibly long legs, white skin, and blonde hair. And her smile. Gretchen was always so...

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Finding Freedom: A Lesson in Not Settling

“Don’t do the things you don’t want to do.” I learned the value of this lesson when I was still working in banking, shortly after I’d completed my bachelor’s degree in finance. When I was still in college, I had aspirations of becoming a financial planner. I thought I would take the test and get certified in lieu of going to graduate school, and when I started working for the bank, I told them so. Becoming a CFP requires sponsorship from a financial institution, and the one I worked for was happy to set me up. They ordered all...

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