Last Tuesday I dropped my 2-year-old to Daycare for the first time.   She had been taken care at home. However, my wife and I realized that even though she was doing excellent developmentally, there is one thing that she wasn't getting. Socializing with other kids, she is too shy and scared. Therefore, we decided to enroll her in a daycare facility, so she can learn to be social with other kids. But boy, it was hard to let my girl go.

I got to drop her off for the first time last week. We were preparing her for that day; we would tell her she was going to go to school, make new friends and play and have fun. We even visited the daycare facility a couple of times, and I got to stay with her for a few hours, so she knew the teachers and other kids. It seems that she understood, and she was even talking about it at home.

Her first day arrived, and I drove her to the daycare facility.   Everything was Ok until I told her "Ok honey, daddy is going to work now, I will be back soon" She immediately grabbed my shirt and started crying yelling "daddy go home, daddy go home."   It felt like somebody was tearing my heart out, and all of the sudden I couldn't hold the tears. I also started to cry, and I honestly thought about taking her with me.   The teacher told me, "The longer you stay, the longer it will take for her to adjust." In other words, she said, get the hell out of here.

I walked to my car, and the tears kept coming down, I called my wife, and we agreed that it was the right thing to do. I drove away, but it was hard.

When I think about our lives and the events in it, I realize that for the most part, it is not full of "important stuff."   Some of us think of our lives in full episodes, but these aren't the only things that are happening. There are simple things that we must do, however, accomplishing these simple things might be the hardest things to do.

  • Doing laundry
  • Eating better
  • Exercise
  • Doing the dishes
  • Grocery shopping
  • Paying bills
  • Dropping your kid at daycare without melting down.

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Most of the time, we're doing what has to be done to better position ourselves for what we wish to do. There are some myths about the joy of daily life, and I think we are lead to believe that a happy life is one filled each day with intrigue and adventure. Most of our days, however, are full of grind.

I realized that letting go of my child is simple yet challenging, it is a grind. Not long ago I wrote a post about mini challenges, 30-day challenges to accomplish anything. So I am doing it. My next 30-day challenge is letting my girl go. I will let go for a month and see if we both can handle it. Most likely we both will, but starting this way seems easier to deal with it.

Remember, coping with difficult things, not matter how simple and mundane they are, is practice to deal with the big changes in our lives. Want to live a fulfilled life and accomplish your goals? Start by tackling the mundane, make your bed every day.

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